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Post War 22
SEVENTIES

I found the whole ethos of the seventies as been a pretty good nightmare what with the frothy unreal property boom of Ted Heath  and the consequent business collapse, the incessant strikes, the deterioration of sound money but above all there was a total change in the moral fabric of Britain.
It is hard to pinpoint one precise time or one single cause for this change in outlook.  It may have been “The Lady Chatterley” trial which established the mores that anything goes in a free society. It may have been the rise of punk rock music in the later part of the decade, it may have been due to the general adoption of a form of liberal  thinking whereby everyone was demanding and safeguarding their rights without any corresponding insistence on ones responsibilities to ones family or the rest of society.
This immoral  stance, together with the corrosion of  easy money and the and the greedy adolescent immature attitude of “ to hell with everyone else” became all pervasive in society.Typically at that time  dozen men in a car plant’s  spray unit would walk out and cause thousands upon thousands to be laid off. Similar disputes pervaded all the major industries of the land from shipbuilding to railways to coal etc. Each small faction would justify their reasons on television which  abetted the fall in moral standards by never making any sound judgemental line all of which had a devastating effect on the economy which culminated in “the winter of discontent” with endless strikes, rubbish not collected and a total collapse of the economy. Television which had been started under  Lord Reith’s  benevolent educational and family entertainment ideals also sank lower and lower in quality  with programmes that even a broad minded world travelled adult would feel ashamed to view. Amidst this total collapse in plain old fashioned decency, with  the glorification and the indulgence of  scruffy  teenagers, our family like so many others in the country had to come to terms with  being modern, and not “stick in the mud” and yet somehow or other,  we were still desperately clinging on  to what was the last remnants of the old order and proper values that was rapidly being swept away to be replaced by greed, egocentrism , and selfishness.  To even dare to express a traditional decent point of view one was viewed as out of touch and not in sympathy with the young. Instead of being well dressed when going out with collar and tie and smart clothes, the new fashion was to ape a building site worker on the job  in jeans and sloppy garb, regardless of how well off or well educated one was. All from the highest and wealthiest in the land fell over themselves to be scruffy, dirty, ill shaven and at the same time this sloppy mores permeated all sections of society. Jill felt very strongly that provided we both kept a firm loving household and a tight loving family unit all would be well. We lectured the  children on the dangers of drugs on the value of hard work, good exams and a sound career  at the end of  their labours.But it was a slowly losing battle as one fought against the ignorant irreverential tidal wave of “modernism”. My view of the resulting process  was exactly and neatly  descibed 20 years later  in the words of  the Indian  Ismael Merchant who produces the wonderful Merchant Ivory films mostly of Edwardian Britain.
“ Britain has stopped being a land where an Englishman’s word is his bond. It is no longer the seat of elegance, learning and good manners, and was now a ‘push button society dominated by greed and instant gratification. Today the Englishman’s word is not important any more----it’s finished. Who is England being inherited by? The lower class, not the upper class. The ruling class today is the lower class who only talk about making money in the City and football. What made a person civilised in the past was reading, writing and the art of conversation. Now all has changed and human relations are established with laptops and not with other human beings. A lot of people spend a whole day on a computor, then go home and spend all their evenings on the internet”.  In other words complete utter bores whose restricted lifestyles cannot come to terms with the wonderful world all around them, where with ease of air travel today one can stomp the deserts of Mongolia, swelter through the Amazon, sail the Beagle Channel in far off Patagonia, or knock it up in a tinny in Mid Australia. No nowadays no one has any free time to think, and a so called great holiday abroad is the thrill of a week in a luxury hotel in the Caribean! What a travesty of experience and what narrow horizons have we sunk into. The great European cultured tradition of classic  composers such as Motzart, Beethoven or Chopin are now totally neglected for punk pop  and other upper class artisan or “C1” tastes.

Mother would come down and stay with us for a week or so every few months so that we all got the benefit of her wisdom. Jill’s Mother continued to prosper in her world of show ponies and she had  built  a  solid reputation in the horsey world. She moved later from her lovely farm at Pangbourne and settled on a  smaller farm at Leith Hill  near Dorking  so as to be not far from us and each week she would come to meet Jill in Horsham for lunch and shopping.She still was always very critical and rather waspish with me, but for my part I just shrugged my shoulders smiled and treated her little barbs rather as one does the weather, sometimes fair, sometimes cloudy! I certainly never ever got into an argument or took up a position against her. She was as it were a part of the bargain of having a wonderful wife and so one just had to put up with her as countless others have to do with awkward ‘in-laws’. Father too was not forgotten in far away Turkey and most  years Jill and I would fly out in February or March to spend 2 or 3 weeks with him and keep in touch.    Dear Roget would always have a car and his charming driver Mehmet  to meet us at the airport, and we would stay a few days to chat to Father and then tour various parts of that lovely country hundreds  of miles in the deep interior, especially lovely in the bright spring sunshine with all the wild flowers out, the upper hills full of gigantic snowdrops in the scree amongst the cyclamen, the pale blue scillas and  nearby drifts of wild crocus.  Lower down the hills would be covered in pulsatillas, bright red, purple and mauve. In  Eastern Turkey in Cappadoccia  there would be brown and purple iris reticulatata as well as highly scented narcissus in the valleys near streams and running water. On these long trips which were very eventful we would take along his attractive friend Audrey La Fontaine. She was fluent in Turkish and had such a charm that she could melt the heart out of any wild shepherd or bazaar keeper deep in the wilds of that vast land. Audrey was so  kind and was one of those people who are naturally goodness personified and she was an absolute treasure the way she would visit Father every day to see to his personal details, his health and argue and fight with his maid who she said was always swindling him! Father was happy and content in his little bungalow next to his sister Lilian and he had a multitude of friends for ever popping in to see him and about 4 or 5 old French ladies with whom he played bridge most evenings. He was naturally always a gregarious person and so long as he had a glass of whisky in his hand and plenty of company and books to read, he was content in his old age after his long eventful life. In 1976 however two things  coincided  to shatter him,and  from which he never really recovered. First he was persuaded to sell “Lanka”. This was a mistake as he then lost all interest in life. He loved the summers at Lidja pottering around on her, and he should have continued that way to the end doing the odd bit of fishing and entertaining friends aboard. But he was always a devil in pushing himself and the boat to its limit, and did not know when to ease back in the face of old age. In a violent storm in  which he should never have been out, he was flung to the side and suffered such severe bruising and a broken rib that he eventually gave in to everyones nagging and disposed of the vessel that had been his pride and joy. So from thence on he had no active hobby and no outside  interest to look forward to and dream about. At the same time there was bad news from Ceylon and his lifetimes work of Hugoland was nationalized

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